12 Super Secure Ways to Cope with Severe Loneliness

12 Super Secure Ways to Cope with Severe Loneliness

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I’m a huge introvert, but I still suffer with chronic feelings of loneliness. These feelings arise from my daily struggles with abandonment and my separation anxiety.

When I’m feeling alone, that’s when the bad thoughts come out to play. They overtake me, and I have the hardest time being able to cope. I feel no hope and likes there’s no way of ever making me feel whole again.

But throughout my struggles of everyday, chronic loneliness, I learned what coping mechanisms help me feel less alone for the time being.

If you’re struggling with feelings of being alone, try these 12 secure ways to cope with severe loneliness.

4 Ways The Sims Helps My Mental Health Tremendously

4 Ways The Sims Helps My Mental Health Tremendously

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CONTENT WARNING: This post mentions self-harm and suicidal thoughts.

For some reason there is still a huge misconception that video games are bad for you. They make you violent. You’re irresponsible and lazy if you play them. For me, that is the complete opposite.

Playing video games makes me forget my problems associated with my mental health. They calm my anxiety. They distract me from my depression. You can read more about how they help me here.

I got my first computer when I was 7 or 8. Ever since then, I’ve played The Sims. And even though I’ve played many games in my life, I’ll always consider Sims to be one of my favorite games of all time.

I own The Sims: Complete Collection, every Sims 2 expansion pack and 4 stuff packs, and the first Sims 3 game. I also have all The Sims games for PlayStation 2.

I’m looking to eventually get all the stuff packs from Sims 2 to complete the collection, as well as The Sims 3 and Sims 4 games and the other spin-offs in the future. Even though the first two series will always be my favorites!

As I’ve recently picked back up playing Sims, I found these 4 ways The Sims helps my mental health.

Growing Up with an Emotionally Unavailable Mom – Part 3

Growing Up with an Emotionally Unavailable Mom - Part 3

*DON’T FORGET TO READ PARTS ONE AND TWO FIRST

A month after I turned 22, my mom called me on the phone. We were playing phone tag for a couple hours. She would call me. I would miss her call. I would call her back. She would miss mine. That’s how it was. Back and forth all day.

Finally, I picked up one of her calls. “I know you’re not going to want to hear this, but I’m getting a divorce.” That’s it. Then she hung up. Just. Like. That.

As soon as I put the phone down, tears flooded from all areas of my eyes. Areas I didn’t even know I had.