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Sometimes life just seems to get in the way of your relationship. But putting your relationship on the back burner is never a good thing, and your relationship will suffer because of it. I think it’s super important to keep the spark alive in a relationship.
It might seem idiotic to some, but I love going grocery shopping with my boyfriend. We get an hour or so once or twice a month to focus on each other’s company. My love language is quality time, so this is huge. (You can find your love language here.)
If you’re lacking the time to focus on your relationship, here’s how you can turn grocery shopping into date night.
GO AT UNPOPULAR TIMES
Nothing ruins a good date than other people. Honestly, who likes obnoxious people talking on their phone or kids running around dramatically when you’re just trying to have quality time?
Find out when your grocery store is the most empty. Is it in the morning? Is your grocery store open 24 hours? I find grocery stores start to empty out around 8 at night, and any time after that is the perfect time to go shopping with your partner.
An empty grocery store means more time to just the two of you. You won’t have to keep up with the rush of the crowd. The best part is nobody will be rudely reaching over you to grab a carton of ice cream out of the freezer.
No matter where you are or what you are doing, you can enjoy the company of your partner. Holding hands is a no-brainer when it comes to date night. If your love language is physical touch, this will fill your love tank right up.
Walk the shopping cart around the store together. Put your arms around each other. Hold hands as you find the food of your greatest desires.
Remember, it’s the little things you can do that help keep the spark alive.
DANCE TO THE MUSIC
Have you ever noticed that the music that plays in grocery stores just makes you want to bust a move? Well, now’s your chance to let loose with your special someone.
Be goofy and dance in the aisles. Hold up a bag of chips and sashay it right into your shopping cart. Ya know, off the shelf and put it in the cart.
For a few minutes, forget about what others think of you. Dates should be about having fun with the person you love. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with a little dance session in public.
BRING YOUR DATE HOME
Hell yeahhh, you get to bring your date home! Help each other bring the groceries in. Help each other put them away and in the right spot. You can even go to the third base and prepare a nice meal with each other. Bow chicka wow wow
Being kind and helping your partner is always great, especially if their love language is acts of service.
It’s so important to never stop dating your partner. You have to actively love your partner. Make that extra effort every day.
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What’s the funnest date you’ve ever been on? Tell us in the comments below!
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