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Even before I knew what the term straight edge was, I came to the conclusion that people drank, smoked, and used drugs to alter their state of mind.
It could be to mask their feelings or to be happy or to enjoy life.
But I knew that was never going to be me.
Stuff like drinking is so normalized. Bar culture is everywhere.
TV shows. Movies. Commercials. Magazines. Billboards. You name it, it’s there.
Even though drinking and doing other types of drugs is part of our culture, it’s never been normal for me.
And I feel like so many people just don’t get it.
People say they respect my decisions, but yet still offer me a drink time and time again.
Keep on reading for 8 reasons why I live my life as a straight edge.
8 Reasons Why I am a Straight Edge
1. I WANT TO BE ME
Drinking or doing drugs alters you as a person.
I 1000000% believe that.
Whether you have a drink to “let the edge off”, or you take a hit to feel calm, you are altering your state of being. Even if it’s just for a day.
I want to be myself all hours of the day. I want to show people my true personality. All my quirks and shortcomings.
I don’t want to wear a mask and pretend to be this different person.
Why can’t we live in a society where we’re not afraid to just be our authentic selves? That’s where humility lies.
2. I WANT TO REMEMBER LIFE
People might think I’m missing out on life because I don’t drink or I’ve never gotten high.
That couldn’t be further from the truth.
I get to remember details and memories. I get to experience every part of my life completely.
I’ve consistently seen what alcohol can do to a person, and it honestly breaks my heart. I’ve seen the struggle of people I love not being able to stay sober.
There were conversations I’ve had with people who couldn’t even remember what was said the day before.
I’ve watched people fall asleep during the middle of family get-togethers.
People have fallen down the stairs right in front of me and injure themselves and still can’t admit that they have a problem.
3. HIGH-RISK ADDICTION
Alcohol addiction runs in my family.
I’ve seen too many of my loved ones, on both sides of my family, lose so much of their life to their alcohol dependency.
I saw it every single day in my dad. I see it every day in his dad. I also saw it every day in my grandma, who passed away from lung cancer due to smoking.
Plus, I already know have a pretty addictive personality from struggling with my self-harm addiction.
Messing with drugs of any kind was never going to be an option for me.
3. FINANCIAL FREEDOM
Let’s get real…drugs, cigarettes, and alcohol are esspensive.
The taxes are high, and the price it takes on your health can be even higher.
My dad spent around $44 a week on alcohol. This means $176 month. Over $2,200 a year.
My mind was blown when I found his receipts and did the math.
Whether I would be a casual consumer or someone who is dependent on something, I would rather have financial freedom.
I could use this money for more useful things, like food and having adventures with my loved ones. I can even save up for that vacation I’ve always wanted to go on.
Plus, spending money gives me anxiety, and it’s one of the things I always stress about.
4. I’LL BE HEALTHIER
Like I said before, I watched my grandma die from lung cancer.
She died just six days after her diagnosis, which was more than ten years after she quit smoking.
Because I don’t smoke, my risk of various cancers drops tremendously. Because I don’t drink, the risk of liver failure is much smaller. And because I don’t do drugs, my brain is healthier.
I’m much less likely to mask my problems, and I won’t fill my body with all these unnecessary toxins that take days to detox from the body.
5. ANXIETY IS TOO HIGH
I’ll admit it. My anxiety gets really high when I’m around drugs and alcohol.
People can shift their personalities in an instant.
All it takes is one second for everything to change.
I would never want to put anything that gives me so much anxiety into my body.
I don’t want to figure out who I would become if I put something like that in my body.
Just thinking about becoming a different person scares me so much.
6. I’M STRONG WILLED
I am strong enough to not go along with the crowd and be able to resist peer pressure.
I’m proud of sticking to my morals time and time again even when others persisted.
I love being able to have complete control over my thoughts and my actions.
My thought processes won’t ever slow down because of any type of substance.
I won’t ever make dumb decisions while under the influence. Like that should ever be an excuse…
7. IT’S ANNOYING
I hate what people turn into when they drink, and how prevalent drinking and bar culture is.
I’ve always felt like an outsider, because I’ve never had the desire to just go out and drink.
I hate the smell of alcohol on someone’s breath. The smell of cigarette smoke gives me a headache and makes my chest tighten.
I hate seeing people I love and care so deeply about turn into someone else right before my eyes.
I know I’m in the minority, but I find every single thing about it as annoying as heck.
Especially when people brag about it and constantly take pictures of themselves with their drug of choice.
Being a straight edge
Being a straight edge in a society that normalizes alcohol and other drugs can feel quite lonely.
You might feel frustrated, annoyed, and even embarrassed.
But there are several reasons to stick to your beliefs and live a life that feels authentic to you.
Are you a straight edge? Tell me below in the comments!
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